Tonight i'm going to make a post, quite a short story, kind of friendship journey.. and it's dedicated to my friend, the best one, who will go so far away from this country, who will cross the sea even the ocean, not just going to another island but continent.
She is Nurul Medina, the kindest person ever lived, the one who has a very pretty face and heart. The one who will going to continue her life and catch her dream by living in Aussie and leave Indonesia for years..
My bestfriend for life..
I've known her since about 3 years a go, saat kita masuk di SMA yang sama, SMA Negeri 47 Jakarta Selatan, kami terdaftar pada kelas yang sama X6, awalnya tentu kami belum saling mengenal jauh satu sama lain, tapi ternyata tidak butuh banyak waktu bagi kami untuk saling merasa cocok satu sama lain, diantara sekian banyak teman sekelas lainnya, Tuhan 'memperkenalkanku' padanya, sosok yang ternyata kedepannya sungguh sangat berarti dalam kehidupanku. Dengan segala kecocokan, tawa, canda, obrolan, permainan, kami menjadi teman dekat, tidak lupa juga dengan Fivo, Nadiah, and the guys: Gio Rezky Hanif Fahmi Risyad Neo Novian Rama dll :-D masa-masa kelas 10 yang harus dilalui dengan berbagai adaptasi yang tak mudah, bagaimana kami melalui proses peralihan, keluar dari segala labilitas pada usia itu, segala masalah baik dalam aspek apapun, semua kita lalui dan kami share bersama. Ntah bagaimana aku melalui masa-masa itu tanpa mengenalnya, Medina, yang akhirnya menjadi sahabat baruku di SMA.
We really had so many unforgettable moment, I can't even count how many times we've been share laugh together, everything seems so straight, so pleasant, so funny! :'D
since the first time I met her,
dari jaman-jaman belum terlalu deket, jaman-jaman gaya foto kita masih 'imut' banget, gimana kita selalu ketawa-ketawa karna jokes ga jelas yg kita buat, gimana kita melewati banyak ups and downs saat itu bareng-bareng, labil bareng-bareng, gila bareng-bareng, nangis pun bareng-bareng, dan masih banyak lagi :')
Ngga bakal pernah lupain seru-serunya kita awal-awal di x6, sering main ke rumah Risyad, terus waktu ngerayain hari batik pertama, terus pas kerumahku rame-rame juga sama Fivo&Nadi yang niatnya mau belajar tapi jadi foto-foto pake webcam, terus waktu kita cabut olahraga ke taman dan ngakak banget gara-gara pak Edi dan panjat tebing sekolah yang kita kira gentong air, gimana kita suka beli lekker sampai foto sama abangnya yang kecil, jaman-jaman sering main "sok lu", jaman-jaman nginep-nginepan terus foto-foto sok badai, apalagi yang dirumah Nadi kita make-up an konyol! hahaha dan pulangnya kita ke bandara sama-sama malem-malem sampai pulangnya ketiduran di mobilmu gara-gara keasyikan liat langit dr atap mobil yang dibuka, jaman-jaman main sama f4 terus, jaman-jaman kalau pulang sekolah masih sering naik metromini sama-sama. ngga cuma ada disaat seneng aja, tapi saat-saat dimana kita suka galau karna masalah cowok pun saling menguatkan, dan masih banyak lagi yang ngga bakal bisa di ceritain satu-satu, all I can say is thankyou for made my life so great when we were at 10th grade by having each other as a very good friends :') thanks for accepted me as your bestfriend with your heart since the first time. what a precious moment!
Lanjut ke kelas 11, sayangnya yah kita pisah kelas :'o tapi hal tersebut ngga membuat kita jadi jauh, and i'm so grateful! :D bahkan kita masih sangat dekat, di kelas 11 kita lebih disibukkan dengan kegiatan cheers, segala-galanya kita lewatin bareng sama temen-temen Dazzle juga, I always remember saat-saat aku cedera, Memed yang selalu paling khawatir dan care, Memed yang ngolesin counterpain waktu aku terkilir, Memed yg nemenin lari ke kamar mandi waktu aku mau muntah/mimisan kena cedera, jaman-jaman kita bikin lagu-lagu gila di hall kalo lagi break, jaman Memed mulai bawa motor dan dengan jegernya kita ke Senayan bareng smp minjem helm di rumah Atikah dulu :') jaman-jaman kita jadi tempat satu sama lain buat ngeluhin cheers, tapi disisi lain juga saling menyemangati dan berbagi banyak cerita. ohya, kelas 11 juga dimana kita mulai bikin keluarga-keluargaan ya! dimana Memed-Pandu jadi orangtuanya, dan ada anak-anak juga, Bambi, Opip, Oon, Obi, yang tadinya bahkan ada tante Hilda om Edoy sepupu Shela dan masih banyak lagi yang kita sampe suka dibilang sinting sama Julie dan Anis! hahahaha :") kelas 11 juga jaman-jamannya aku melewati lovelife yang berat sekali..yang dimana cuma bisa curhat sama Memed and so do you to me, bagaimana ada hal-hal yang ngga bisa kita ceritakan ke orang lain, bagaimana kita saling menguatkan, tempat curhat terbaik!
Begitu juga sampai naik ke kelas 12 pun, kita tetap selalu keep in touch as a good friend walaupun mulai nggak sesering dulu main barengnya, but we never have a fight, we respect each other when we're in kind of busy with our own activities, but when we meet, we still into each other, we share everything and laugh as much as we were young :p or sometimes even the tears..we always also cry inside when we see one of us cry or deeply sad.
"We've shared so much laughter, so many tears.
We're a spiritual bond that grows stronger each year. We're not sisters by
birth, but we knew from the start, something put us together to be sisters by
heart."
3 tahun di SMA, Memed selalu ada, menjadi salah satu sahabat terbaik yang pernah aku punya, we grow up together these past 3 years, you see how I changes, and I see how you changes. but there's one thing that would never ever change, our friendship :') even sampai kelulusanpun. yang dimana setelah ini it means you and I will be apart because we have to reach our own dreams with our own way :')
(our graduation day)
And now, we have to separated by our life's fate, we're growing up and we have to continue our precious life God has gave to us, first, we choose the different speciality, enter the different college/univ, then we go to our own way, but all I know is someday when we meet again, kita sudah sama-sama menjadi diri yang sukses dan menjalani hidup yang kita impikan bersama cita-cita kita lainnya :'D aku jadi guru tk dan psikolog, kamu jadi chef handal dan manajer wanita yang hebat. Dimana kita akan terlihat berbeda dari luarnya nanti, tapi di hati semoga akan selalu tetap seperti bagaimana kita pertama mengenal, pribadi perempuan yang berhati baik dimata satu sama lain dengan segala kegilaannya yang menyenangkan. Segala tawa, cerita dan caring yang akan terus kita share nantinya saat kita bertemu lagi :'D
Over all, here's my message for you, Nurul Medina aka Memed.
My bestfriend, my second mom, my sister, my share-mate and everythinggg..
"baik-baik ya Med disana! :') selalu jaga diri dari hal-hal yang membahayakan, selalu berhati-hati dalam berkeputusaaan, jangan takut, be a tough woman in there.. disaat kamu bingung, disaat kamu resah, jangan pernah membuat keputusan gegabah, remember that Allah will always be with you wherever you go. Kalo kangen sama Jakarta dan Indonesia, just remind urself that it can be a motivation for you untuk cepat-cepat menyelesaikan kuliah dengan baik dan kembali kesini, jangan pernah takut orang-orang akan lupa sama kamu, semua yang disini akan selalu kangen juga sama kamu, Med! :) I can't wait to see you back someday as a smart intelligent woman who can inspire people by your life story. Whenever you feel alone, always remember that you'll have plenty of new friends there, dari berbagai belahan dunia, you'll be a person who has an extraordinary experience which can make you be a powerful woman than anyone later.. Don't cry easily, take a deep breath when you know you are about to cry than keep your chin up, every obstacle will make your heart tougher, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger! :) jangan pernah putus asa walaupun seberat apa nanti perjalanan hidup kamu disana, selalu ingat bahwa kita tidak mungkin hidup tanpa masalah, tapi Allah ngga bakal ngasih cobaan yang melebihi batas kemampuan kita :)
I will always love you my bestfriend of life.. jangan lupa janji kita untuk ketemu lagi nantinya :'D you have no idea how i'm gonna miss you damn muchhh! skype or tweet me oftenly babe! :') have a great journey ahead!"
"A
friend gives hope when life is low, a friend is a place when you have
nowhere to go, a friend is honest, a friend is true. A friend is
precious. A friend is you."
"True
friends are the ones who never leave your heart, even if they leave your life
for a while. Even after years apart, you pick up with them right where you left
off, and even if they die, they're never dead in your heart."
Thanks for being my friend, thanks to accompany me these past three years, thanks to let me know you better until that deep, thanks for all the things we've shared, thanks for always listen to my story, thanks for all the laughs, the jokes, the memories and all of the stuff between us which I will never ever forget, dan ngga lupa juga, thanks for gave me this board as your last gift for me before you go..
it's more than a priceless :')
well,
Take care, take care, take care..
"And so we talked all night about the rest of our lives
Where we're gonna be when we turn 25
I keep thinking times will never change
Keep on thinking things will always be the same
But when we leave this year we won't be coming back
No more hanging out cause we're on a different track
And if you got something that you need to say
You better say it right now cause you don't have another day
Cause we're moving on and we can't slow down
Where we're gonna be when we turn 25
I keep thinking times will never change
Keep on thinking things will always be the same
But when we leave this year we won't be coming back
No more hanging out cause we're on a different track
And if you got something that you need to say
You better say it right now cause you don't have another day
Cause we're moving on and we can't slow down
As we go on, we remember..
All the times we had together..
And as our lives change
Come whatever..
We will still be..
Friends Forever"
All the times we had together..
And as our lives change
Come whatever..
We will still be..
Friends Forever"
Vitamin C - Graduation (friends forever)
So that's all I can say..
I love you, Nurul Medina :)
See you when I see you..
Best Regards,
your bestfie,
-Pishella Suryoputri-
(who can't imagine how much tears that would fall when you're leaving :'D)
