Miranda : One word, Hubble
Carrie : Oh my God, it is! it is so Hubble!
Samantha : Who's Hubble?
Carrie : Hubble! Robert Hubble in "The Way We Were"
Charlotte : Oh, I love that movie..
Samantha : Never saw it. Tell me
Miranda : Ok, Robert Hubble is madly in love with the girl named Katie. But he can't be with her because she's too complicated, and powerful. So he leaves her and marry this..ughhh simple, normal girl.
Carrie : Ladies. now I get it.. The world is made up of two types of woman. The simple girl, and the Katie girl. I am the Katie girl.
-Sex and the City, Season 2 Eps. 18-
With what i've been through just today, like.. trapped in a similar situation. When someone is dying to be married with him immediately just so she can prove and brag to me that she owns him. She believes that no matter what, he is belong to her, he only wants to marry her, his heart is hers.
But I know, with everything that has happened, no matter how often he convinces me that he also loves me, he will eventually choose her over me, so she's right.
I ask myself, why? And I remember the way he said..
"however, you are complicated, critical, smart, you are too hard to be handled. you go with your own way and no one can ever command you. you have something that no other woman has", and at another time he said.. "to be with her.. she's just.. prospective. she's the rightest for me."
And I realized..
"Pada akhirnya, kebanyakan laki-laki hanya akan memilih wanita biasa. Wanita yang mudah untuk dia kendalikan. Karena laki-laki terlalu takut, bahwa tahtanya sebagai kepala akan berada dibawah apabila bersama wanita yang hanya ia kagumi. Mereka mencari apa itu aman. Dan jika suatu saat nanti, akan ada laki-laki yang mampu bertahan dan bertaruh untuk tetap bersama wanita tangguh, ia lah laki-laki pemberani yang sesungguhnya. Yang cepat atau lambat, akan meluluhkan kekuatan wanita manapun dan tetap berada di atas"
-Pishella Suryoputri-
